As well as the emotional loss (some of those things I kept were like art, just there to make my soul happy when I looked) I think what makes this phase harder is being constantly reminded of the practical inconvenience, every time I go to post an email and have no address, or want to access a link that’s no longer there. Our neural pathways are wired to make things easy for our short term memories.

I’ve also lost all the material for a life coaching course I was supposed to be running at a local college in the autumn. That isn’t possible now as I’ve missed the deadline for submitting it to the curriculum manager.

But as they say – and my daughter loves this one – This too shall pass.

@Tess,
I enjoyed the accidental post you put out yesterday – it was one I’d missed first time round, back in early May!

I’m glad Marc touched you, too. That “Shine on!” of his got me sniffling again. It’s been a soggy week, but these comments will help me recharge a new power source. And the beauty of Wordpress is that all the wisdom people share in these boxes will be stored, safely (I hope!!!)

Thanks, Tess. I know a new phase must be coming, even though I’m not quite sure what it is yet. And you’re right, the universe will make sure I have whoever and whatever I need for the journey.

So consumed in this I tried a few times and published a few times and then deleted them. Not realizing it was getting published anyway so my old post showed up. But hey I learned how to do it!

This is what I think once you’re finished grieving and put closure on the situation you won’t miss a thing. Because what you need will come back to you in one way or another.

I love the log off more or love your family better! You’re wise to make a list of your lessons you will learn and not make the same error next time.

Keep the words flowing. And Marc I wrote the name down and plan on buying the music.

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